Why Does Love Hurt? This Is What the Story of Lucy and George in “A Room with a View” Tells Us

PDF version. As I described in my previous article, modern cultures motivate us to live and love authentically. This entails being genuine and forthright with oneself and others. This also entails accepting accountability for your errors. Such an authenticity can … Continue reading

The Indian Myth of Kamadeva, the Hindu God of Love

Many modern Western symbols of love date back to the early Greeks and Romans. Eros was the Greek god of love, while Cupid was the Roman god of love and desire. The image of a chubby Cupid aiming love arrows … Continue reading

When Ancient People Began to Kiss for Love

Anthropological studies of modern societies have revealed that sexual and romantic kisses are not universally present across different cultures. Such a display of affection as kissing was once considered obscene. Who first thought of kissing as a way to show … Continue reading

The Way You Eat and Drink Affects Your Love Affairs

The excerpts from Ovid’s “Ars Amatoria” suggest that in love affairs, women should be mindful of what and how they eat and drink. Many scholars are familiar with the writings of Ovid, the ancient Roman poet. He rose to prominence … Continue reading

Step 3 to Make Him Believe He Is Loved, as Ovid Wrote

Here I quote step 3 of how to “Make Him Believe He Is Loved,” as Ovid recommended women master the art of love with a man. Many people who study love are familiar with the works of the Roman poet … Continue reading

Step 2 in Making Him Believe He Is Loved, as Ovid Advised

Here I quote step 2 of how to “Make Him Believe He Is Loved,” as Ovid suggested women learn the art of love with a man. Many Western scholars are familiar with the poems of Ovid, the ancient Roman poet … Continue reading

Step 1 in Making Him Believe He Is Loved, as Ovid Advised

Ovid said, “Make Him Believe He Is Loved,” thus suggesting women learn the art of love in a relationship with a man. Here is step 1. Many scholars of love are familiar with the works of Ovid, the ancient Roman … Continue reading

Women Can Play the Game of Love with “Cloak and Dagger”

Quotes from Ovid’s “Ars Amatoria” imply that women should play the game of love with a “cloak and dagger” approach. The famous Roman poet Ovid, who lived from 43 BCE to 17 CE, penned “Ars Amatoria” (The Art of Love). … Continue reading

How Women Can Use Jealousy and Fear in Love Affairs

The excerpts from Ovid’s poems in “Ars Amatoria” quoted here suggest that women can use jealousy and fear to fuel love affairs. Ovid, a famous Roman poet who lived between 43 BCE and 17 CE, wrote “Ars Amatoria” (The Art … Continue reading